一日,天使遇見一個詩人,詩人年青、英俊、有才華
而且富有,妻子貌美又溫柔,但他卻過得不快樂。
天使問他︰「你不快樂嗎?我能幫你嗎?」
詩人對天使說︰「我什麼也有,只欠一樣東西,你能夠給我嗎?」
天使回答說︰「可以。你要什麼我也可以給你。」
詩人直直的望著天使︰「我想要的是幸福。」
這下子把天使難倒了,天使想了想,說︰「我明白了。」
然後把詩人所擁有的都拿走。
天使拿走詩人的才華,毀去他的容貌,
奪去他的財產,和他妻子的性命,
天使做完這些事後,便離去了。
一個月後,天使再回到詩人的身邊,
他那時餓得半死,衣衫襤褸地在躺在地上掙扎。
於是,天使把他的一切還給他,然後,又離去了。
半個月後,天使再去看看詩人。
這次,詩人摟著妻子,不住向天使道謝,
因為,他得到幸福了。
人很奇怪,每每要到了失去後,才懂得珍惜。
其實,幸褔早就放就在你的面前。
肚子餓壞的時候,有一碗熱騰騰的拉麵放在你眼前,幸福。
累得半死的時候,撲上軟軟的床,也是幸福。
哭得要命的時候,旁邊溫柔的遞來一張紙巾,更是幸福。
幸福本沒有絕對的定義,平常一些小事也往往能撼動你的心靈,
幸福與否,只在乎你的心怎麼看待。
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
幸福與否,只在乎你的心怎麼看待。
Posted by cherrieslove at 5:08 AM 1 comments
Monday, October 12, 2009
身体都有生理时钟,不同时间有不同工作,应该配合生理时钟,才能有健康身体哦!
午夜 12:00 ~ 1:00
浅眠期
多梦而敏感,身体不适者易在此时痛醒。
凌晨 1:00 ~ 2:00
排毒期
此时肝脏为排除毒素而活动旺盛, 应让身体进入睡眠状态,让肝脏得以完成代谢废物。
凌晨 3:00 ~ 4:00
休眠期
重症病人最易发病的时刻,常有患病者在此时死亡, 熬夜最好勿超过这个时间。
上午 9:00 ~ 11:00
精华期
此时为注意力及记忆力最好,且工作与学习的最佳时段。
中午 12:00 ~ 1:00
午休期
最好静坐或闭目休息一下再进餐,正午不可饮酒,易醉又伤肝哦!
下午 2:00 ~ 3:00
高峰期
是分析力和创造力得以发挥淋漓的极致时段!
下午 4:00 ~ 5:00
低潮期
体力耗弱的阶段,最好补充水果来解馋,避免因饥饿而贪食致肥胖。
下午 5:00 ~ 6:00
松散期
此时血糖略增,嗅觉与味觉最敏感,不妨准备晚膳来提振精神。
晚上 7:00 ~ 8:00
暂憩期
最好能在饭后 30 分 钟去散个步或沐浴,放松一下,纾解一日的疲倦困顿。
晚上 8:00 ~ 10:00
夜修期
此为晚上活动的巅峰时段,建议您善用此时进行商议,进修等 要思虑周密的活动。
晚上 11:00 ~ 12:00
夜眠期
经过镇日忙碌,此时应该放松心情进入梦乡,千万别让身体过度负荷,那可得不偿失哦!
Posted by cherrieslove at 12:07 AM 1 comments
Monday, May 11, 2009
Heartache
Today is the 1st time my dad tells me his feelings. Im really surprise. Lately, my mom's temper had changed alot. She treats me and my sister much more hormonius than last time. But the way she treats my dad, had been different. Dad told me few things bout what she done. Maybe they both have different thought. But my mom didn't say it in a good way. I heard it too. Just now, while my mom's were not in the car, dad tells me that he's very upsad. He said : "现在你妈咪讲话,听了很kek sam"。 I know.... i can feel it from his voice. Sometimes when i heard his problem of his business, i know he is suffer and heartache with all his arduous problems. But the feeling will not be as suffer as the words that came by the wife . I really give highly respect to my dad as he did not scold ,talk back in defiance or angry of her . Even her words brought him to pain.
That's why i had always love my dad. He's a man who can really sacrifice for the person he love. I love him forever. He'll always be the best man in my heart.
I love my mom too. I know she didn't did it in purpose. Sometimes, my mom will tells me some problems of my dad too. Sincerely, im glad that they will tell me bout it. Just that, i really don't wish to see them in this condition. Life is to live with happiness.
Posted by cherrieslove at 8:17 AM 3 comments
Sunday, May 10, 2009
大喜事
Posted by cherrieslove at 8:55 AM 1 comments
Saturday, May 9, 2009
放下
现实生活中,绝大部分的烦恼和困挠,都来自于我们的固执和妄想。
因为不懂得放下,我们一味沉溺于过去的快乐和痛苦 :
因为不懂得放下,我们一味偏执着未来的虚无梦幻,始终不愿意好好过好眼前的一分一秒。
正因为不懂得活在当下,我们不断自寻苦恼,不断折磨自己。
过去的已经过去,未来的尚待努力,只有适时将心中的执念放下,我们才能更踏实的活着,不再患得患失。
懂得放下 才能 活在当下
今天有位朋友,send了以上的短文给我。
很有意思对吧,但我能做到吗??
Posted by cherrieslove at 5:45 AM 4 comments
Friday, May 8, 2009
Cheated
Yesterday 8.30pm, i went to attend a class which nearby my house. Once i park my car, there's a lady come and knock on my car window. So i get down from my car and asked her what happened. She tells me that she's from china, with her daughter along and they have not enough money for dinner. She hopes that i could give her some money as she and her daughter could buy a meal. She kept begging and i was in hurry, so i gave her rm10 as that will be enough for both of them to buy a meal.
But she was not satisfy. After she took over the money, she said she hope i can give them more as they can have a place to stay. She wants rm50 !!
Oh my God, i know i've been cheated. Stupid lina ! I know i looks like a donkey at that time!
She try to convince me but of course im not an idiot. I said im just a student and all i can help is only this. But that lady still not giving up, she try to say how pity she are with her face expression as really looks like she's in trouble. Come on, i've already know you are a deceiver, do you think i will still give you money? I didn't ask back the rm10 from you already consider very kind.
Okay, until here, im already late for my class, so i just walk away.
All this while, whenever i donate money, i never been so comfirm and sure i've been cheated, because they might from a true organization. Since i willing to take my money out for donation, then just let things end there. No point of thinking are they a swindler?
But this time ....
=(
Posted by cherrieslove at 10:47 PM 3 comments
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
3 为中年女子
今天下午载了妹妹放学,我们就在一间mamak吃东西。食物刚到,旁边那座来了3位aunty. 其中一位年纪比较高。大概都有60多岁了。另两位就大概40多岁50岁那样。 她们叫了3杯 teh tarik. 其中一位就拿了一支汤匙,帮那3杯teh tarik搅了一下。那位比较老的却对她说,不用那么省的,你怕他们洗meh,我们有给钱的啊。顺手就拿了两支汤匙放在自己和另个杯中。 那时,我心就在想,这个人吃到那么老,难道不能帮忙节省一点吗?
不多久,那位老女士叫了一个roti tisu, bungkus. 在他们谈话中,得知她是打包给她女儿吃的。
大约十分钟,他就举手叫来了一位服务生问: mana i punya roti tisu, 当时的店人很多,所以服务生就叫他等一等,已经在弄了。她便说: cepat sikit lah, nanti i mahu duduk itu (手就摆起了飞机向上飞的动作,也因为她不懂怎么说,便问她朋友). 他朋友也就笑笑而已。服务生当然也走掉啦。 他朋友就说,哎呀,你这样讲,等下人家讲回你说,坐飞机就不用等啦。然后他笑说,他之前在哪里也试过这样,之后怎样怎样的。
我心又在想,这位老太婆,真的是啊. 都那么老了,却还不会想,不体谅,还要讲骗话!
当时,还真的有一股冲动想讲他。 当然,我没那么做。因为我突然觉得,这是一件多么可悲的事。无理的人,满街都是。没良心、没道德、没公德心、没礼貌等等,到处能见。
世界怎么了?
互相 ~合作、尊敬、体谅 的社会
充满 ~爱、慈悲、和谐 的世界
有 ~同情心、良心、公德心、诚心、真心,的人 都去哪里了?
Posted by cherrieslove at 12:50 AM 3 comments
Sunday, April 19, 2009
重要的不是發生了什麼事,而是要做那些事來改善它。
佛家說逆境是「增上緣」,可遇而不可求。
遇到困難時,重要的不是發生了什麼事,而是你即將用什麼態度來面對,做些什麼事來改善它。
Posted by cherrieslove at 7:59 AM 4 comments
沒有烏雲,沒有暴風雨,便沒有美麗的彩虹。
有一朵看似弱不禁風的小花,生長在一棵高聳的大松樹下。
小花非常慶幸有大松樹成為她的保護,為它擋風擋雨,每天可以高枕無憂。
有一天,突然來了一群伐木工人,兩三下的功夫,就把大樹整個鋸了下來。
小花非常傷心,痛哭道:
「天啊!我所有的保護都失去了;從此那些囂張的狂風會把我吹倒,滂沱的大雨會把我打倒!」
遠處的另一棵樹安慰她說:
「不要這麼想,剛好相反,少了大樹的阻擋,陽先會照耀妳、甘霖會滋潤妳;妳弱小的身軀將長得更茁壯,妳盛開的花辦將一一呈現在燦爛的日光下。
人們會看到妳,並且稱讚妳說,這朵可愛的小花長得真美麗啊!」
默想~
當失去了一些以為可以長久依靠的東西,自然會有難過及割捨的痛苦,但其中卻隱藏著無限的祝福和機會。
日後回首時,你才驚訝自己成長的痕跡,是那麼清晰明顯,甚至是令人滿心喜悅的。
Posted by cherrieslove at 7:57 AM 1 comments